Can you believe it? What started as an idea to gather a small group of Black folks to retreat, fellowship, and practice liberatory kink has grown into a sold-out experience now entering its third year.

The Kink Yourself Free Retreat is a curated, consent-forward space for Black folks—from the freaks to the meek—to explore kink as a pathway to freedom, individually and together.

This year’s theme is:
Practice Makes Pleasure: Building Trust, Holding Power, and Deepening Pleasure Together.

Across five days in Playa del Carmen, we gather to explore what it means to be in deeper relationship with our desires, our boundaries, our bodies, and each other. Through workshops, facilitated conversations, embodied experiences, intentional play spaces, coaching, practitioner support, and spiritual integration, you’ll have the opportunity to learn, practice, and make meaning of what comes alive.

This is a space where pleasure holds more: joy, grief, desire, repair, accountability, and release.

Alongside the work, there is rest. Laughter. Nourishing meals. Warm water. Soft landings. And a community of Black folks committed to practicing something more honest, more grounded, and more free.

Vetting is required to attend. Once approved, you’ll receive access to register. Spots are intentionally limited.

If your body is curious, that’s enough.

Visit www.theblackkinkretreat.com to get vetted, learn more about the retreat, and hopefully we will see your beautiful self in Mexico this fall!